Success after Competitive Skating Isn’t Just Luck

Last week, I talked about how figure skating increased self-confidence for my daughter, Chrissy. It did the same thing for my son, Will. Both Chrissy and Will say that increased self-confidence was one of the the biggest benefits of figure skating.

I focused on Chrissy’s life after competitive skating last week, so I want to focus on Will’s this week. In addition to having increased self-confidence, Will says figure skating increased his ability to work hard and be self-motivated. Although Will was naturally a hard worker, figure skating played an important role in fully developing his ability to work hard, be self-motivated, and persevere through adversity.

I’m a great believer in luck, and I find the harder I work, the more I have of it.

-Thomas Jefferson

Successful athletes learn to work hard and develop self-discipline. I remember hearing that Ivy League schools often like figure skaters who have tested through senior because of their ability to work and persevere toward a goal. Out of necessity, student athletes also learn to manage busy schedules.

DJ Will. (Photo from 1clickphotography.com)

DJ Will. (Photo from 1clickphotography.com)

While training and competing internationally in pairs, Will used his developing time-management skills to simultaneously:

  • start and operate a DJ business
  • begin his coaching career through coaching Learn to Skate, apprenticing with high-level coaches, and teaching private lessons
  • take college courses part-time
  • participate actively in the Society of Success and Leadership in college

After retiring from competitive skating, Will attended college full-time while working as a coach and DJ. Now Will has his B.A. degree, but he still manages both his DJ business and a busy coaching schedule.

Will’s wife, Chea, is a former competitive skater as well. She uses her ability to be self-motivated to work as both a skating coach and a sports psychology consultant while completing her doctorate in sports psychology.

It isn’t unusual to hear of former competitive skaters who are successful in life. And that isn’t just luck—unless it’s the kind of luck Thomas Jefferson talks about.

Figure Skaters Need Patience to Create Excellence

It takes time to create excellence.  If it could be done quickly, more people would do it.

- John Wooden

I discussed Coach John Wooden a bit last week. Coach Wooden’s teachings have inspired athletes throughout the world. If you’re not familiar with John Wooden, here’s the link to Coach Wooden’s official website and a YouTube tribute to Coach Wooden: YouTube Preview Image

John Wooden’s teachings are as relevant to figure skaters as they are to basketball players. Wooden teaches that patience is essential for success of any kind.

In our fast-paced society, it’s too easy to move on to something else when things get tough. Striving for excellence in figure skating is a good test of an athlete’s patience and ability to persevere.

In figure skating, it takes years to reach the senior level. Pairs and dance teams take years to become their strongest. Ice dance team Tessa Virtue and Scott Moir were together 13 years before becoming the 2010 Olympic and World champions. Meryl Davis and Charlie White were together 13 years before winning the silver medal at the 2010 Olympics and Worlds. 2010 Olympic pairs champions Shen Xue and Zhao Hongbo were together 18 years before winning the Olympic gold medal.

The maxim “Competitive skating is a marathon, not a sprint” is all too true.

Coach Wooden says:

Competitive greatness requires patience. Excellence requires patience. Most of all, success requires patience.

How has the need for patience affected you and/or your skater?

Why Start a “Raising Figure Skaters” Blog?

Deb ChitwoodWhy did I start this blog?  As a longtime parent of figure skaters, I’m used to the joys and sorrows associated with being a parent of competitive athletes.  I’m also aware of the fact that it’s sometimes frightening and even lonely to be involved in a competitive sport in which most disciplines are based on the individual or a team of two.  We parents need to be there for our children, but do we have enough support ourselves?

In this blog, I plan to offer encouraging examples, inspirational quotes and word art for you and your skater/s, discussions of topics that affect skating families, and a place where you can provide input and ask questions that affect you and your skating family.

This blog is here to help and encourage you and your skater/s.  I like the quote by Erin Majors:

A candle loses nothing by lighting another candle.

Here’s to helping light one another’s candles and to helping keep our children’s candles lit along the way.