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Character Counts – Help Your Child Develop Character

Character Counts!I’ve written more than once about Michael Josephson’s Character Counts website. The site has lots of great resources for character education and inspiration for both children and adults.

Be sure to check the links in my earlier post for the newsletters and sportsmanship self-assessment available through the site. Here are some of the best ways you can use Character Counts to help your child develop character:

Use the free teaching tools. There are lots of resources – even discussion guides to use with Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix and Hamlet. There’s also a section specifically for parents on the Free Teaching Tools page.

The teaching tools include free lesson plans (searchable by six pillars of character and by age from age 4-teens). The lesson plans are especially useful for educators and homeschoolers. Some of the activities are seasonal. For example, if you have a child age 4-6, check out the Be a Good Egg (Easter) health and science lesson plan on trustworthiness. There are also Earth Day activities for 6 year olds through teens.

Use the Michael Josephson Commentary for inspiring stories you can use to stimulate and reinforce discussions on character.

Use the quotations section for inspiration and to stimulate discussions of character.

I’m a real fan of quotations, and many sports coaches use quotations as a motivational tool. I create word art every Wednesday using motivational quotes. You could print out quotes for a notebook or for a school- or athletics locker. Quotes are especially helpful for older children and teens.

Of course, the best way to help your child develop character is through your own example. Be a person of good character yourself. Probably equally important is that you truly want to raise a child of good character. Ask yourself: Do you view raising a child of good character as more important than raising a “winner”?

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Thought-Provoking Thursdays

It’s Character Counts! Week October 17-23

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Next week is Character Counts! Week. The slogan for the week is “Make character your cause for celebration.”  I wrote about Michael Josephson’s Character Counts along with links to some great newsletters for everyone in an earlier post. Character Counts is a wonderful site with many free resources on character education. There are many extra resources available for Character Counts! Week.

These resources are ideal for educators (including homeschoolers), but they’re helpful for parents, grandparents, or any caring adults. There’s a pledge to take and parenting tips for parents with children at each age level. Anyone can register for free Character Counts! Week resources here.

Character Counts Week is designed to inspire and celebrate character. It focuses on the six pillars of character (trustworthiness, respect, responsibility, fairness, caring, and citizenship).

Character Counts encourages the T.E.A.M. strategy at home and school:

Teach children that their character counts.

Enforce the Six Pillars of Character.

Advocate character.

Model good behavior.

Note: for educators, in addition to the Character Counts! Week resources, there’s a Lesson Plan Bank with lesson plans for students in all levels K-12. A timely example for preschool-1st grade is an interesting lesson plan called Sharing Our Surplus Stash: A Trick-Or-Treat Twist. It’s designed to help 4-6 year olds learn about citizenship and develop an attitude of sharing/donating. And it helps get rid of some of that upcoming excess Halloween candy!

For Character Counts! Week, Character Counts even has daily character ideas for children and another set of daily character ideas for adults (“An Idea a Day to Bust the Character-Recession”). Here are the adult ideas for next Monday-Friday:

Monday: Caring Coupons

Get out your scissors and start clipping coupons that care. You don’t have to get money off to get a buzz, sometimes it’s enough to read a feel-good story online or in the press and keep them on file to refer to when the news is just too much, or give them to friends for inspiration when they’re feeling down.

Tuesday: Recycle, Reuse, Reduce

Good citizenship includes being environmentally aware, and recycling makes cents! Find out where your local recycling depot is and raise some money for a local charity by recycling your bottles and cans. Not only are you doing your part for the planet, but also for your community.

Wednesday: Share the Load

So it might not be your actual JOB to return the shopping cart to the store, but how about taking a little time to share these tasks? Perhaps your supermarket no longer employs people to collect carts, or maybe your local diner waitress would appreciate if you wiped up the crumbs from the table you ate at, or could you leave that hotel room just a little bit tidier before you check out?

Thursday: Invite a 360-Degree Appraisal

Want to really show you’re trying to be better? Invite your coworkers to give you an annual review based on the values of the Six Pillars of Character.

Friday: Be Patient With Bad Manners

That includes your own! Bite your tongue, tone it down, and take deep breaths. Everyone gets frazzled in today’s demanding society, but try to stay calm and be polite all day. Treat others as if they were gentlemen – not because they are, but because you are.

Remember the quote by John Hays Hammond:

Please join me in celebrating Character Counts! Week next week!

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I love the quote by Vince Gill that says,

Success is always temporary. When all is said and done, the only thing you’ll have left is your character.

That thought is relevant for anyone, but I think it’s especially important for athletes and anyone in a field that focuses on winning and success.

Michael Josephson has a character-education program I love called Character Counts. The program can be used anywhere but is especially popular in schools and athletics. It emphasizes six pillars of character: trustworthiness, respect, responsibility, fairness, caring, and citizenship.

My dissertation for my master’s degree in education was on using Montessori methods to teach courtesy. For part of the literature review, I researched character-education programs in schools. I Iiked everything I read about Character Counts.

I had already been subscribing to the Character Counts newsletter for a few years. I found the stories helpful for my children as athletes. I still enjoy reading the stories for the great values they share. Character Counts has a character educator blog and newsletter. It also has a commentary blog with thought-provoking stories from Michael Josephson’s radio commentaries on character and ethical living.

The Character Counts newsletter for coaches and anyone involved in amateur sports is called Pursuing Victory with Honor.  Don’t you just love that title?! There’s even a sportsmanship self-assessment for athletes and for coaches, parents, and administrators.

Here’s a beautiful video by Michael Josephson called “What Will Matter.”

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Photo Credit: Photo at top of post by Jhong Dizon.

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