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Best Confidence Quotes

Confidence

This is a big week in figure skating … the week of both the U.S. Figure Skating Championships and the European Figure Skating Championships. A time like this reminds me of the importance of self-confidence. Not only does competition help individuals gain confidence, but the athletes with the most confidence typically perform best.

And it isn’t true just for sports. A job interview or almost any type of performance under pressure will be much more successful with self-confidence.

Here are some of my favorite confidence quotes:

“Under pressure you can perform fifteen percent better or worse.” Scott Hamilton

“Each time we face our fear, we gain strength, courage, and confidence in the doing.” Theodore Roosevelt

“You are the only person on earth who can use your ability.” Zig Ziglar

“Life is not easy for any of us. But what of that? We must have perseverance and above all confidence in ourselves. We must believe that we are gifted for something, and that this thing, at whatever cost, must be attained.” Marie Curie

“Your chances of success in any undertaking can always be measured by your belief in yourself.” Robert Collier

“The greatest barrier to success is the fear of failure.” Sven Goran Eriksson

“With confidence, you can reach truly amazing heights; without confidence, even the simplest accomplishments are beyond your grasp.” Marianne Williamson

“Have confidence that if you have done a little thing well, you can do a bigger thing well too.” David Storey

“Giving people self-confidence is by far the most important thing that I can do. Because then they will act.” Jack Welch

“Don’t live down to expectations. Go out there and do something remarkable.” Wendy Wasserstein

“If you don’t have confidence, you’ll always find a way not to win.” Eleanor Roosevelt

“Don’t wait until everything is just right. It will never be perfect. There will always be challenges, obstacles and less than perfect conditions. So what. Get started now. With each step you take, you will grow stronger and stronger, more and more skilled, more and more self-confident and more and more successful.” Mark Victor Hansen

“Self-confidence is the memory of success.” David Storey

“Confidence is the most important single factor in this game, and no matter how great your natural talent, there is only one way to obtain and sustain it: work.” Jack Nicklaus

“Confidence doesn’t come out of nowhere. It’s a result of something… hours and days and weeks and years of constant work and dedication.” Roger Staubach

“Skill and confidence are an unconquered army.” George Herbert

“You’ve got to take the initiative and play your game. In a decisive set, confidence is the difference.” Chris Evert

“If you have no confidence in self, you are twice defeated in the race of life. With confidence, you have won even before you have started.” Marcus Tullius Cicero

“Self-confidence is the first requisite to great undertakings.” Samuel Johnson

“Health is the greatest possession. Contentment is the greatest treasure. Confidence is the greatest friend. Non-being is the greatest joy.” Lao Tzu

“Confidence is contagious. So is lack of confidence.” Vince Lombardi

“We gain strength, and courage, and confidence by each experience in which we really stop to look fear in the face… we must do that which we think we cannot.” Eleanor Roosevelt

“Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement. Nothing can be done without hope and confidence.” Helen Keller

“Inaction breeds doubt and fear. Action breeds confidence and courage. If you want to conquer fear, do not sit home and think about it. Go out and get busy.” Dale Carnegie

“Believe in yourself! Have faith in your abilities! Without a humble but reasonable confidence in your own powers you cannot be successful or happy.” Norman Vincent Peale

“Whatever we expect with confidence becomes our own self-fulfilling prophecy.” Brian Tracy

“Regardless of how you feel inside, always try to look like a winner. Even if you are behind, a sustained look of control and confidence can give you a mental edge that results in victory.” Diane Arbus

“At a young age winning is not the most important thing… the important thing is to develop creative and skilled players with good confidence.” Arsene Wenger

“When you have confidence, you can have a lot of fun. And when you have fun, you can do amazing things.” Joe Namath

“Confidence is everything in this business.” Reese Witherspoon

“My theory is that if you look confident you can pull off anything – even if you have no clue what you’re doing.” Jessica Alba

“The big gap between the ability of actors is confidence.” Kathleen Turner

“Everybody wants to be somebody. The thing you have to do is give them confidence they can. You have to give a kid a dream.” George Foreman

“You weren’t an accident, You weren’t mass produced. You aren’t an assembly-line product. You were deliberately planned, specifically gifted, and lovingly positioned on the Earth by the Master Craftsman.” Max Lucado

“Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined.” Henry David Thoreau

What is your favorite confidence quote?

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Success after Competitive Skating Isn’t Just Luck

Last week, I talked about how figure skating increased self-confidence for my daughter, Chrissy. It did the same thing for my son, Will. Both Chrissy and Will say that increased self-confidence was one of the the biggest benefits of figure skating.

I focused on Chrissy’s life after competitive skating last week, so I want to focus on Will’s this week. In addition to having increased self-confidence, Will says figure skating increased his ability to work hard and be self-motivated. Although Will was naturally a hard worker, figure skating played an important role in fully developing his ability to work hard, be self-motivated, and persevere through adversity.

I’m a great believer in luck, and I find the harder I work, the more I have of it.

-Thomas Jefferson

Successful athletes learn to work hard and develop self-discipline. I remember hearing that Ivy League schools often like figure skaters who have tested through senior because of their ability to work and persevere toward a goal. Out of necessity, student athletes also learn to manage busy schedules.

DJ Will. (Photo from 1clickphotography.com)

DJ Will. (Photo from 1clickphotography.com)

While training and competing internationally in pairs, Will used his developing time-management skills to simultaneously:

  • start and operate a DJ business
  • begin his coaching career through coaching Learn to Skate, apprenticing with high-level coaches, and teaching private lessons
  • take college courses part-time
  • participate actively in the Society of Success and Leadership in college

After retiring from competitive skating, Will attended college full-time while working as a coach and DJ. Now Will has his B.A. degree, but he still manages both his DJ business and a busy coaching schedule.

Will’s wife, Chea, is a former competitive skater as well. She uses her ability to be self-motivated to work as both a skating coach and a sports psychology consultant while completing her doctorate in sports psychology.

It isn’t unusual to hear of former competitive skaters who are successful in life. And that isn’t just luck—unless it’s the kind of luck Thomas Jefferson talks about.

Self-Confidence Makes Everything Better

Self-confidence is the first requisite to great undertakings. 

-Samuel Johnson, British Author (1709-1784) 

Chrissy (standing center) during a university performance.

Chrissy (standing center) during a university performance.

Self-confidence is one of the commonly listed life skills gained from figure skating or from success in any sport. I remember walking through a mall a number of years ago and noticing a skater from a neighboring city in the distance. The skater was an intermediate-level skater and typically didn’t place first in competition. Yet, she had poise and self-confidence that made her stand out.

That was true for my daughter, Chrissy, as well. Chrissy found self-confidence to be a life skill that has helped her stand out in many areas.

  • When Chrissy was younger, her self-confidence gained from figure skating allowed her to perform in dance recitals without nervousness.
  • She performed confidently as a DJ and announcer.
  • She did numerous newspaper, radio, and television interviews with poise and assuredness.
  • She auditioned for a performing arts university place with no prior acting experience (other than figure skating) and was accepted, commended for her audition, and praised for being so self-confident.
  • With the least acting experience in the program, she was given starring roles in the plays for her bachelor’s degree and had a leadership role in ensemble pieces.
  • She was given a Creative Spark Award for outstanding work in the creative disciplines at Sheffield Hallam University.
  • She was given a Hallam Award at graduation as a student representative/academic affairs committee member demonstrating skills in public speaking, communication and time management.
  • She was a successful speaker and awards presenter for a sports award night at a college in England.
  • She started successful businesses.

This was all at age 19 or younger. Of course, my husband and I are very proud of Chrissy. And we realize that figure skating directly increased Chrissy’s self-confidence, allowing her to succeed in many areas.

Have you seen an increase in your child’s self-confidence from figure skating or another sport?

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