Using Talents and Spreading Joy – Sean Quigley

Gratitude, happiness, and using your talents are big topics with me. The inspirational “Sean Quigley – Little Drummer Boy” says a lot about using your talents and gratitude/happiness. The video was uploaded to YouTube on November 30. It already has 963,499 views.

If you haven’t seen the YouTube video, here it is:

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I just love the joy and true spirit of Christmas that 16-year-old Sean Quigley exudes in the video. And I love that that the video shows someone truly using and appreciating his talents. According to a CTV news story:

“The teen’s production is all the more remarkable considering Quigley played all the instruments, sang the vocals, recorded everything and directed and edited the video.”

I hope we can all be a bit like Sean Quigley – finding and using our unique talents and spreading joy in the process.

Wishing you lots of joy this holiday season! :)

Linked with Thought-Provoking Thursday.

Be the Best You Can Be

I think we’re all called to be the best we can be – by developing both our talents and our character. This week I was inspired by two sports examples. Of course, it doesn’t matter whether you or your child(ren) choose to develop your talents and character through sports or through another avenue.

Skater Brandon Mroz Pushes the Limits

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I first met Brandon Mroz in 2005 when he was competing at the Broadmoor Open skating competition in Colorado Springs. He was also a volunteer runner for the Broadmoor Open, and I was the chair of the runners. I remember Brandon as having lots of talent and confidence even then.

That same year, Brandon’s mother and brother were in a serious car accident. According to Brandon’s profile at icenetwork.com, that accident (which left his brother with a spinal-cord injury) taught Brandon “to be strong, trust God and stay focused.”

Brandon, 2009 U.S. men’s silver medalist, has become known for his quad jumps. This week, it seems that the biggest figure-skating news on Twitter has been Brandon’s landing of a quad lutz at the Colorado Springs Invitational last Friday, September 16. Even though the Colorado Springs Invitational isn’t an international competition, it’s possible Brandon’s quad lutz will be recognized as the first official quad lutz landed in competition: Top skating official says Mroz could jump into record books.

According to a tweet from @USFigureSkating, (image at top of post), the video of Brandon’s quad lutz had already become the second most popular video on the U.S. Figure Skating YouTube page two days ago.

In case you haven’t seen it, here’s Brandon’s quad lutz:

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Amazing how easy he made that look!

About the quad lutz, Brandon said:

“I was at a point where my technique was well established. I just decided to try, and I guess I’ve been successful. I like jumping, I like pushing boundaries. Maybe by doing these quads I can push the sport a little.” (The Inside Edge: The new quad king)

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Runner Josh Ripley Shows Character

Not to take away from Brandon’s or anyone else’s character, but an outstanding example of character showed up on my Yahoo news page yesterday morning. This story was also from a competition last Friday, September 16.

In the middle of a cross-country meet, Minnesota high school runner Josh Ripley stopped to carry an injured rival to help before returning to finish the race: Runner carries injured foe half mile to help in middle of race.

I love examples like Josh Ripley, examples of athletes showing great sportsmanship and kindness. Earlier in the year, I wrote about Sportsmanship in Sports and in Life with some other examples of great sportsmanship. For resources to help develop character, I have lots of links in my post What About Your Kids’ Character?

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Do you have some favorite sports inspirations?

Linked with Thought-Provoking Thursday, Kirsty & Friends, and Fitness Friday.

Blogging for God

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Like many, I felt called to blog. It was actually my husband, Terry, who first introduced me to blogging less than 1½ years ago. Interestingly, he was led to an article about a blogger, even though he never followed blogs. He felt that blogging might be something I’d be interested in doing. And he was right.

Blogging is the perfect fit for me and makes use of some of my main talents and interests, which are writing, teaching and parenting (which I write about regularly), doing research (I love researching children’s activities and parenting ideas online for my blogs), and encouraging others (which I do both through Living Montessori Now and Raising Figure Skaters).

Even though my writing fits who I am, I think I’m really writing for God … writing because God wanted me to. And that makes writing a bit different … gives me a more serious approach to my writing. Am I really writing what God wants? What does blogging for God mean to me?

Follow me to Spring Snow Publications to read the entire article.

Photo Credit: Photo by Laura Dantonio at Flickr Creative Commons.

 

Be Grateful for Your Talents

Will (11) and Christina (6) in their first skating (including pairs skating) experience, 1996.
Will (11) and Christina (6) in their first skating (including pairs skating) experience, 1996.

Anyone who’s involved in sports knows how easy it is to envy the top athletes’ talent and/or luck. Coach John Wooden didn’t forget to address that issue while he developed the character along with the skill of each of his athletes. There’s good reason the July 29, 2009, Sporting News Magazine declared Coach Wooden “the greatest coach ever.”

Coach Wooden was deeply religious. He had wonderful advice for all of us, not just athletes. He said simply:

“God made each of us unique.”

The Fellowship of Christian Athletes tribute book The Greatest Coach Ever goes on to give “Wooden’s Wisdom” regarding the topic of talent:

“Each one of us has a different mix of talents and a distinctive set of circumstances….If we refrain from comparing ourselves to others and stay off other people’s ladders of success, we will have peace of mind. If we put forward our best effort, we can consider ourselves to be successful.”

If we follow Coach Wooden’s advice, we will truly enjoy the journey rather than just waiting for a final goal. When I look back on my kids’ skating careers, it’s difficult to say which part was best. I loved when they first started skating, their first local competitions, their first Junior Nationals (then called Junior Olympics), later Junior Nationals, sectionals, “big” nationals, Will’s Junior Grand Prix internationals and Junior Grand Prix Finals, Chrissy’s senior internationals, Europeans, and Worlds.

There were good things about each part of my kids’ competitive journeys. And the painful times along the way, the times when they didn’t get the breaks, that was all part of their process, their “distinctive set of circumstances.” How can we compare their skating experiences with someone else’s?

Will’s competitive skating career was “perfect” for him, and Chrissy’s was “perfect” for her. I’m grateful for every opportunity we took to make competitions special at each level, for every opportunity we took to celebrate our kids’ achievements.

Let’s remember ThanksLiving. It applies to talents, too.

Spiritual Steps on the Road to Success

Sports can be part of someone’s spiritual journey. In the book Spiritual Steps on the Road to Success: Gaining the Goal Without Losing Your Soul , Linda Seger, ThD,  discusses the call individuals receive to use their God-given talents. Then she talks about the challenges and growth that result from maintaining integrity and a relationship with God while moving toward success in a field.

One of my all-time favorite movie quotes is Eric Liddell in Chariots of Fire saying,

I believe God made me for a purpose, but he also made me fast. And when I run I feel His pleasure.

A popular quote by author and motivational speaker Leo Buscaglia says something similar:

Your talent is God’s gift to you. What you do with it is your gift back to God.

In Spiritual Steps on the Road to Success, Linda Seger discusses such a calling and how to meet the responsibilities and challenges that come with it. Linda uses numerous examples of successful individuals from different walks of life and considers the difficulties and rewards of combining faith and success. She shows that successful people can maintain a relationship with God.

One of her examples is actor Denzel Washington. In an excerpt from the book, she discusses Denzel Washington’s call and how he’s met it. She says:

Actor Denzel Washington recognizes that he has been called to do his work: ‘I understand that what I’ve been blessed to do is a part of God’s plan.’ He begins every film with a prayer he learned from his mother: ‘Heavenly Father, We come before thee, knee bent and body bowed, in the humblest way that we know how.’ Washington says, ‘I open the film with a prayer and end it with praise.’  When asked about his film, The Great Debaters, he said, ‘Every major decision I made, I made through prayer, about who I was picking to be in it, what it was I was trying to say, praying that the film was saying the right thing and that it would reach the right people … It’s how I start every day, and it’s how I end every day.’ (pp.41-42).

Linda Seger is an authority on screenwriting and a Quaker who lives her faith. The second part I know because I’m a member of the same Quaker Meeting as Linda. Linda interviewed my daughter, Chrissy, and her ice-dancer partner, Mark, while they were still competing. In the book interview, Chrissy talked about keeping God in her skating. She described the importance for her of focusing on “skating for God rather than on whether we win or lose.”

2006 World Ladies Figure Skating Champion Kimmie Meisner was recently interviewed for an article called “Faith and Figure Skating.” Not only did Kimmie say that her faith helped her get through difficult times in her skating career, but she described how her figure skating and faith are connected when she said,

I try to live my life the way God wants me to live it. By sharing my gift of skating, I become closer to God.

For many, it seems that success and faith can be connected. Although Linda’s book doesn’t emphasize one field more than another, it is a helpful guide for any athletes wondering how to follow God while following their sport.